Sorry for the typos. It should read: This is a PS from the Australian woman approaching 80. I forgot to mention that the shifts in resolving my entanglements with my daughters has been followed by unexpected shifts in my relationships with my daughters for the better. Still completely unsure where this is headed but clear that the ultimate goal is settling into having need of nothing regardless of what is going on the world around me, which leaves me with no firm question. However I expect if you address the issues I have raised, much of it will resonate and assist me in moving forward. Thanks with all my heart for the work you are doing. Linda